Where was I?

Ah yes,  Satuday!

But first:

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The Day the Music Died 

What does that mean for you? 

For me, it means the day that someone crossed the line… and you realize things can never be the same. 

How do you deal with that when it happens? 

I can assure you, it’s a gutpunch. 

And its something you cannot just “make go away”. 

Communications definitely can help, mind you… 

… but you have to both be ready to be open and show tolerance to each other. 

And reaching *that* point is something that can take quite some time. 

So! How do you handle it, when you feel your heart was literaly broken? 

You give yourself permission to grieve, permission to mourn, permission to accept your own failings for having tried to be so helpful in the past… 

And you redirect all of that angst to your business/family and the like. 

When it comes right down to it… the only person (truly) you have to blame…is yourself. 

I’ve watched now for several as people whose hearts have been broken blame the other person… and take no ownership of the fact their feelings were never returned in the first place. 

I’ve seen others posts calls to action that would inspire murder. 

I’ve seen other people get on their sanctimonious high horse, and when challenged to support their view – they disengage while telling other people, they were being bullied (because someone dared to insist on citing authority references). 

I’ve even seen that some kids in this generation somehow takes what their parents have struggled to offer them… 

… quite for granted. 

So again. 

What DO you do on the day the music died for YOU? 

You take ownership of the fact you gave rent-free space in your mind to someone who possibly didn’t deserve it. 

You be gentle to yourself. 

You be kind to yourself. 

You forgive yourself for your expectations. 

And you take the lessons you’ve learned and ideally become a much wiser person indeed. 

In closing, you cannot control what the people around you, do. 

But you can choose to learn how to control your responses to whatever provocation happens. 

Life is too short to angst about people who set ultimatums. 

Let them go… 

… and let YOU continue your journey as well. 

Think about it. 

Best, 

Barb

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And….. Where was I?

It’s Satuday!

Actually nope its still Friday at around 6:15pm.

But first!

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Very weird day.

Got upat 4am to get some stuff done and then realized… other stuff had to be added to other things.

End result – no real sleep and lots and lots of angst.

These things happen, of course.

I apologize for my lack of perkiness today – just want to recover from it all.

Your takeaway?

Your health is number 1.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

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Of course you do!

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If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

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AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

• askblings.com/darthcaultv

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

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Where was I?

Ah yes,  Friday!

But first:

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Ever wish you could revisit 2012 and discover the benefits of FB groups that ideally you’ve already known about since the dawn of the age of Aquarius? 

Well then! 

FB groups have released not 1, not 2 but 3947539760 new group features (okay that’s a weeee bit of an exaggeration) over at: 

sachsmarketinggroup.com/new-features-coming-facebook-groups/ 

Consider these new addtions: 

SUBSCRIPTION GROUPS (where you can pay FB, wheeee!) 

GROUP ACTIVITY LOG FILTERS (where you can see why people are being tweebleheads! 

GROUP RULE VIOLATION NOTIFICATIONS (where group members can be gently reminded that if they dare a moderator to remove them, oh the moderator has such a delightful time!) 

and other cool ideas. 

Now, if you wanted to create a 1 2 3 cheatsheet on FB groups, you could break it down into: 

Step 1.) Decide what your group will be about 

Step 2.) Screenshots on creating the group 

Step 3.) Use THESE following techniques to excite and compel people to join! 

What techniques, I hear you ask? Check out: 

www.socialmediaexaminer.com/how-to-improve-facebook-group-community/ 

businesssuccessedge.com/facebook-group-posts-engagement/ 

sproutsocial.com/insights/marketing-tips-facebook-groups/ 

marketingartfully.com/how-to-have-a-successful-facebook-group-10-creative-tips-and-ideas/ 

Your takeaway? 

FB groups can be a grand way for you to increase your fanbase… 

Why not take advantage of that today? 

Enjoy!

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And….. Where was I?

It’s Friday!

Actually nope its still Thursday at around 6:15pm.

But first!

This is ON SALE!!

30% has been taken off for a quick Flash Sale and OMG…. you’ll love what you see!

• askblings.com/235k

Seriously… the amount of quality content you’ll be receiving…

So excellent indeed.

And!

Yesterday saw quite an interesting happening.

An Honorary Ling called me at 12:05am (HLs are kids I look out for who are not my own) with issues to talk over.

And talk we did, for 55 minutes.  ‘Twas so happy to help out.

And!

Got to the gym:

and also got the Mother’s Day gifts from my 2 of my kids:

So wonderful indeed.  🙂  Notice the Mama Bear!

And!

That part about taking a stand?

Let’s just say that a “discussion” of sorts erupted on my wall… and I decided to take it back… big time.

My wall, that is.

So I deleted all of the sarcastic, cruel, and otherwise really tweeeeeblyheaded posts by several individuals and put them all on notice –

My wall, my way.

My kids saw… and were quite proud of me as well (which is utterly awesome!).

Your takeaway?

Don’t let people silence you.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see the Incredibles Pitch Meeting?

Of course you do!

🙂

And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

• askblings.com/cspatreon

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

• askbling.com/cad

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

• askblings.com/darthcaultv

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be PLR  (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NEXT:

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
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AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist  and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

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And! I started a private Internet Marketing Authority Course over at  askbling.com/btlclass1  … Click below to start the adventure!

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Where was I?

Ah yes,  Thursday!

But first:

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Ever wish you could watch paint dry and still feel excited by the brilliant hilarity it can provide? 

Me neither. 

However, there ARE some brands that are quite inspirational in their marketing, even if their niches are close to the “dullest” one can think of. 

marketinginsidergroup.com/content-marketing/6-inspiring-content-marketing-examples-uninspiring-industry/ 

has a cool article about this fascinating concept and includes reasons like: 

“…An Instagram account filled with examples of corporate social responsibility. 

A clean website design with minimal text, just plenty of clear CTAs and Flo with her trademark starched white uniform and cherry red lipstick smile. 

An easy-to-use app for customers, with intuitive features and Flo’s smiling face 

Video marketing featuring ever-perky Flo 

A blog for ‘your financial well-being’ 

Free FICO credit score – even if you aren’t a customer 

Free personal data security alerts 

A brand Twitter account where users can have their customer service issues resolved 

Even the brand’s credit card design puts the customer first with metallic pink, purple, gray, or blue credit cards – who wouldn’t want to carry one of those?…” 

So how can YOU infuse your current goal with something that attracts and enchants at the same time? 

You could incorporate: 

Step 1.) Consider your pets. Are any of them photogenic? Does any of them try to eat your phone at the weirdest of times? Have you already created a brand of your pets and your interests (like coffee and Kingly Mooses)? 

If so you can work out a series that begins with a close up of your pet and then neatly segues into whatever you want to promote 

Step 2.) Consider your family. Have an insane urge to be stalked by every weirdo on the Internet? Okay, let’s nix that right now. 

Step 3.) Consider your morning routines. Do you start every day with a cup of coffee? Biking on your recumbent bike? Reading the daily horror stories that pass as news these days? 

If so, you could start your marketing with that as a jump point right now! 

Want other ways to make boring things soundi interesting? Consider: 

www.elucidat.com/blog/make-boring-topics-interesting/ 

primeyourpump.com/2018/11/05/gamification/ 

www.zerys.com/writers/writers-blog/bid/92927/5-creative-ways-to-make-boring-topics-beautiful 

www.copyblogger.com/boring-topic-content-marketing/ 

Your takeaway? 

You can always find an angle that makes even watching paint dry (compare it to, say, how long parents have to wait for their emo teens to answer a question) … relatable. 

So don’t shun the boring-but-necessary-content-thingees… 

Make them a joy to read (and perhaps even share!) today. 

Enjoy!

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And….. Where was I?

It’s Thursday!

Actually it’s still Wednesday around 930pm

Oh wow, I am so hosed when it comes to sleep.  No matter what, tomorrow I will get up at a nice normal hour and NOT keep doing this rather poor cycle of sleep/no sleep/etc.

Working on my latest and realizing…. I like make 2 covers for my ebooks.  Learned that from Ben Adkins

(speaking of which, did you know 150 done for you eCovers are already available at askblings.com/coverfox ?  ’tis a great deal!)

But I digress.

And have you ever seen jealousy online?  I have, and wrote:

“Something to thunk about.

You know, I love hearing about big launches.

I adore reading about products that become #1 on JVzoo, W+, etc…

What did you think?

Your takeaway?

Celebrate other people’s wins.  It’s a good thing to do.

A very powerful lesson indeed.

And that’s all…

Because….

It’s the Internet Lifestyle!

🙂 And want you to see Spiderman Pitch?

Of course you do!

🙂

And our morning art/humor?

If you like this goodness, get all the extra benefits at his Patreon site (stuff not shared on his site)

• askblings.com/cspatreon

and then visit the page below and like/share the comics… they always make my day a wee bit more bright!

• askbling.com/cad

AND!  At some time, I’m going to write about making money as a gamer (the site Twitch.tv is fascinating – you can stream people playing games and some of the best of ’em earn in the 5 figures!).

Because it’s both Star Wars AND coffee AND a cat, I like watching:

You can watch him and subscribe to his channel over at:

• askblings.com/darthcaultv

What’s new in your neck of the woods… would love to hear….

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a GEMALERT from me –  could be Social  (note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NEXT:

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
askbling.com/4alert
to get these in real time. Thanks!

=======================

AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist  and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

=======================

And! I started a private Internet Marketing Authority Course over at  askbling.com/btlclass1  … Click below to start the adventure!

=======================

And! I started a private SuperAffiliate Course over at askbling.com/superaff30 … Click below to start the adventure!

=======================

And! I started a private IM Coaching Waiting List over at askblings.com/btlcoach  … Click below to get on the said waiting list!

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